[Up to Main] This is one of the more common doubts. It’s been written about extensively, including elsewhere on this site. So let me get right to the point: Masturbating does not somehow disqualify you from being ace. It’s that … Continue reading
Q: Do you ever have sexual fantasies? If so, do you design them or are they subconsiously-sourced or are they the work of other people (a la pornography)? Do you find them arousing, enjoyable, and/or annoying? Not really, but I … Continue reading
Q: Although you are ace, do you still masturbate? because I thought asexual meant little to no sexual attraction to anyone. but i dunno Yes, I do. As you say, asexuality is about attraction, it’s not about action. Absolutely nothing … Continue reading
Q: Tbh it’s hard to think of male specific questions about asexuality? I mean I could jump in and ask you about the sexual expectations attached to masculinity or bug you about boners but I feel like I’d be invading … Continue reading
Q:Hi, I’m an ace female and I was just wondering how do you respond to people when they say thing like you’re wrong for not liking sex or you’ll like it when you’re older or when you’ve found the right … Continue reading
[Up to Main] What is sex? I don’t know, something about birds and bees and flowers and trees? I’m not exactly sure how the moon up above is supposed to be involved, but there are some things I’m probably better off not … Continue reading
[Return to Overview] Asexuality is an amazing topic. People who have never heard of it instantly become experts and will start spreading their infinite wisdom on the subject. Never mind that they refuse to listen to what actual asexuals have … Continue reading
There are some topics that I see turn up repeatedly in asexual spaces, yet I rarely see them explored to any great extent. “An Asexual’s Guide To …” was born out of a desire to explore some of those topics. … Continue reading
[Up to Main] What’s an orgasm? An orgasm, also known as “coming” or “climax”, is the peak of the sexual response cycle, and is typically the result of sexual stimulation of some form. An orgasm is usually considered pleasurable, and … Continue reading
[Up to Main] What’s this “Arousal” thing I’ve heard of? Sexual arousal, the type of arousal I’m talking about here, is the body preparing itself for sexual activity of some kind. It doesn’t mean that you have to do anything, and … Continue reading