An Asexual’s Guide To … Masturbation

[Up to Main] What is masturbation? Masturbation is the self-stimulation of the genitals, typically to orgasm. Less scientific, please? Masturbation is touching yourself downstairs in a way that causes your body to respond.  It’s also known as “jacking off”, “jilling … Continue reading

An Asexual’s Guide To … Female Masturbation

[Up to Masturbation | Main] The techniques and details described in this post are not the only way to masturbate.  They’re not the “correct” way or the “best” way.  They may not even work for you.  They’re provided as a base … Continue reading

An Asexual’s Guide To … Male Masturbation

[Up to Masturbation | Main] The techniques and details described in this post are not the only way to masturbate.  They’re not the “correct” way or the “best” way.  They may not even work for you.  They’re provided as a base … Continue reading

Asexuality Questionnaire #8b.1: Masturbation

IMPORTANT:  If you are under 18, skip this questionnaire.  Return to the main questionnaire page and answer some others instead. If you have not already done so, please stop off at the main questionnaire page for important information about the … Continue reading

Asexuality Questionnaire #8a.2: Masturbation

IMPORTANT:  If you are under 18, skip this questionnaire.  Return to the main questionnaire page and answer some others instead. If you have not already done so, please stop off at the main questionnaire page for important information about the … Continue reading

Asexuality Questionnaire #8a.1: Masturbation

IMPORTANT:  If you are under 18, skip this questionnaire.  Return to the main questionnaire page and answer some others instead. If you have not already done so, please stop off at the main questionnaire page for important information about the … Continue reading

AAW Day 6: Masturbation

One of the most common question asked of asexuals is “Do you masturbate?”. The answer:  Yes.  I do. (Not all of us do.  Some of us do, some of us don’t, and some of us can’t.) (BTW, it’s NOYDB.  So … Continue reading

Missing a Permission Slip

[Content Warning: Discussion of masturbation and sex and stuff.] Not too long ago, over on Asexual Activities, there was a discussion about aces having trouble masturbating in one way or another.  So I started writing about the problems I encountered … Continue reading

Maybe I’m Not Really Asexual Because I Haven’t Tried It Yet To Be Sure

[Up to Main] Quite a few people don’t want to call themselves asexual, because they don’t feel they can know for sure until after they try having sex and see how it goes.  There are several ways to address this … Continue reading

Maybe I’m Not Really Asexual Because I’ve Had Sex

[Up to Main] A lot of people think that having had sex is a disqualifier, and a lot of people use someone’s sexual history as a “gotcha”, that is, as clear, incontrovertible evidence that someone isn’t really asexual. That you’ve … Continue reading