Don’t give in.
You are who you are. Hiding it or lying about it for someone who refuses to understand won’t change that. If they don’t understand, that’s their problem.
You’re not wrong. You’re not broken. You’re not alone.
Asexuality is nothing to be ashamed of.
Asexuality is nothing to hide.
Well done! I’m also going to have a 40 year old virgin birthday in 6 months & I’m not ashamed of it.